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Hi Friend, >husband who cheats but I can't >seem to let him go There is an old story of a master and a student, they were walking through the forest when all of a sudden a jaguar appeared. They started running away from it until they both managed to escape. The student asked the master, "Were you offended by the behavior of the jaguar?" The master's reply was, "Not at all, he was just being a jaguar doing what jaguar do, all I could do is get out of his way and go on with my life." I am NOT saying your husband is a bad person. He is another angel from God that is trying to teach you a great lesson about yourself, meanwhile you are too busy making him wrong for being himself. Granted there may be other reasons why he does what he does, but he bottom line is, somewhere deep within you, you are allowing yourself to settle for something you may not want. You see, it is not about them. It is about us. A woman who feels worthy enough to not allow for that kind of behavior, as uncomfortable as it may seem, would have either walked away from it, of have done something to demonstrate she is worthy of someone who can appreciate her. So if you do not work on that, I can almost guarantee that if you were to leave and choose to move on to another relationship, your next one will mirror some of the same behavior in just a different body. Of course I am not wishing you to move on to another relationship, I am just making a point. That is why you'll notice that this email, no matter what your challenges seem to be is not about fixing the world around you to accommodate the way you wish things were but to help you regain your power so that you can choose how to feel at any given moment. The moment you do so, I got news for you, the problems will never go away, but the way you see things will make it seem as if they have. Not because you are putting up with things, but because you are learning to accept what is, change what you can, and move on with your life. The difference between a student and a master is not that the master have no problems, but that his is not troubled by them.

May the light of Spirit shines brighter and brighter within you and I know deep within my soul that all your dreams will soon come true if you believe in yourself as much as I believe in you! Love, peace and blessings, Nick Arandes (The Radical Kid)