Success and Miracles: Ask Nick Arandes

Hi Friend,

> As hard as it is to say this I need insight quickly.

The first thing is, your mind is what is creating all of this and trying to go there to fix it with your mind would not be the best choice.

There are few key things you need to be willing to understand and accept before moving forward.

1st, everything is happening in divine order for your highest good. The challenge is, you are looking at what is, instead of looking at whatever it is you are intending to create, therefore planting what is right in front of you.

Let's take a look at your email.

> I am on the verge of
> making some big decisions about changing the course
> of our life that
> involves career changes,

That is a good thing! Change is what makes us grow. And if you can accept the fact that these changes are taking place to help you get to what you really want, regardless of what it looks like on the outside, it would make it easier to accept what is and move on with your life while you do whatever it is you feel you need to do to either resolve this situation, or letting it go.

> forcing a buy out from my
> very hostile partners.

I know people can come across as hostile or whatever label we choose to give them. What I am offering you here is a suggestion. It is not about denial, it is about acceptance. When you label something as "hostile" all you are doing is labeling a behavior that triggers emotions in you.

Now, I know it is not necessarily easy to feel good or pretend that you are not bothered by something when indeed you are. I understand that. However, if you could begin to embrace the fact that 1) everything is happening in your life for your highest good, and 2) you attract everything in your life, you have now the tools for acceptance and power.

Acceptance of what is allows you to deal with the day to day life situations more peacefully and the fact that you have chosen to own everything as your creation gives you the power to change it!

Keep in mind friend, I have no clue about what kind of business you are in or the situation so I am just generalizing. According to your email let's see what else comes up.

> I am very sad, impatient with my
> children and my
> confidence is dwindling.

I can understand your feelings of sadness, impatience, and lacking of confidence. People want immediate answers mostly because their real challenge is they do not trust their Creator or Spiritual nature. Once again, they are trying to figure it out with their mind.

> I want to get out the way I
> am feeling.

Then learn to accept what is, and be okay with that, knowing that as long as you are committed to move in the direction your heart really wants you to move into, everything will work out fine! The only thing that is getting in the way of the perfection of the good that is meant to come your way is your better idea of how things should be.

I am not saying sit on your butt and do nothing and YES, I am also saying that. Here is what I mean. Find time during the day where you can give yourself the gift of quiet time. If you are not used to this kind of practice, the mind is going to try to run the show by making you think that you most not have any thoughts, etc.

It is okay to have thoughts. All I am asking you is to simply go out to the beach, a park, go out into nature and simply be. From that space answers begin to emerge.

This the attitude of surrender. Whatever will happen, let it happen. Here is why I say so. The more emotion you place upon the situation, the more you plant it there. And if you have a challenge finding an emotion that helps you focus in a different direction, then, by letting go at least you are not fueling the situation which indeed allows for the universe to do it's work.

Now may ask; "If the universe is doing it's work, how come I can't get rid of this situation?" Because remember friend, you have free will. Your Spiritual nature cannot take away from you that which you do not want to release. How do you know you do not want to release it? Because you have invested emotion in it.

That is why instead of trying to figure it out, I would suggest to let the answers come to you in quite solitude. I am not talking about whole days. I am talking about a 30 minute walk in a place that is inspiring to you. The beach, a park, etc.

I am going to share with you a personal story to help you understand what I mean.

Last year in 2006 around March, I was dealing with financial challenges. I gave a 30-day notice because I had to get out of that house. I had an investment that I could not touch and no money coming in. When I moved out all I had was few credit cards and very little money in the bank. I remember heading towards the beach late evening and close to midnight, parked my car, and started to cry, NOT because I was sad but because I needed to release a lot of energy that was built up from the environment I was living in.

So I did not make an issue out of it, I simply checked into a hotel and had an AMAZING night sleep. Next morning came up and I just enjoyed the morning trusting that I will be taken care of. Here is what I want you to understand before I continue on. Knowing that I was taken care of had nothing to do with me figuring out how I was going to get myself back on my feet or find a way to make money, etc. None of that. My sense of calmness and peace simply allowed me not to fuel with energy all the possible things that could happen to me. Because remember that energy attracts that which is congruent with that level of energy.

Long story short, my phone rings about two hours before I check out. The person was someone I must met at the Peak Potentials Life Directions course as a coach. I shared with her my situation and never asked for anything. She goes, "That's it! You are coming here." Although she did not ask for anything, I own an studio and do web design, graphic arts, etc. So we made and exchange. I will built her site and record CDs for her to sell at her workshops and speaking engagements and I can stay there rent free. There I was, not having to pay rent and living in this beautiful house overlooking the mountains. Not only was that a great house, it was the perfect house because she had wireless internet connection which allowed me to do all the internet work I could do with my online business etc.

When it was time to move out of there, someone I met at one of Peak's Camps calls me out of the blue saying that he would like to mentor me in his online trading business which I did show some interest in online trading. I go to his house, as we begin our very awesome Quantum Physics conversation, in the middle of that conversation I mentioned that I was relocating but haven't found a place yet. He goes, "Well, I am a real estate broker, let me get on the computer and give me a price range." I did and the first property that showed up I went to see.

Now, let me share something before I finish the story. A week before that I stayed at a Hotel in California to get out of the house I was staying at and give my roommate some space. I know that the place I am looking for must be close to the ocean. That was the intention I set for myself. The hotel was next to the ocean. Well, the property I went to see, which by the way, is where I am typing this email, is across the street from that hotel.

If I would have panicked out last year and tried to figure things out, I would have probably end up stressed and who knows. In other words, all of the details worked themselves out without my input. All I needed was to relax, trust and do what I was inspired to do.

So right now you have an opportunity to let the Universe to It's work. Meanwhile, find some time to relax and imagine what it would feel like if you could see yourself in the place you would rather be. I know I can't go into much detail here because again, I am not talking to you and do not know the details of what you are dealing with.

> Do you have any ideas or resources for me?

One would be my Manifesting Miracles Course at www.FulfillYourDreams.com

The other one would be the Busting Loose From The Money Game at: http://www.busting-loose-from-the-money-game.com/gtour/high.html

> Can you coach me?

For coaching you can log on to http://www.NickArandesCoaching.com

All I can say is, everything is working fine for you, even when it does not seems like. There is a hidden gift underneath all that is happening in your life and I guarantee that the sooner you let go and allow the gift to flourish you'll look back and will appreciate all that is taking place. These are the moments that gives us the wisdom and strength to live the big dreams that are meant for us!